Last Will and Testament: A Guide

Introduction

Contemplating a Last Will and Testament isn't just about facing our end; it's a practical, necessary step in life planning. It ensures that the things you own and care about are distributed according to your wishes, provides clarity to your loved ones, and prevents potential legal complications. In this guide, we'll break down everything you need to know about creating a will and why it's not as daunting as it might seem.

What is a Last Will and Testament?

A Last Will and Testament is a legal document that outlines how you want your assets and estate to be distributed after you die. It can also specify guardians for minor children and arrangements for pets. Essentially, it is your voice when you're not here to speak.

Why it is important to Complete Your Last Will and Testament?

1. Control Over Asset Distribution: Without a will, state laws dictate how your assets are divided, which might not align with your wishes.

2. Protecting Loved Ones: A will can reduce the stress and financial burden on your family during an already difficult time.

3. Preventing Disputes: Clearly stated wishes can help avoid family disputes over your estate.

“Even though an estate sounds fancy, and conjures images of a big house with a circular drive, if you have a bank account or own a bass boat and a motorcycle, you have an estate.”

The Risks of Dying without a will

Without a will, you leave the fate of your assets and potentially the well-being of your family to impersonal state laws. This could mean:

- Unintended heirs receiving your assets

- Complicated, lengthy, and expensive legal processes for your loved ones

- Additional stress and potential conflict among family members

“Probate is the four letter word of death - the court will not care and your family will have to pay bills and taxes.”

getting started on your Will

You don't need much to begin:

- A clear idea of your assets

- Decide on your beneficiaries

- A trusted individual to serve as executor

How to Complete Your Last Will and Testament

1. Inventory Your Assets: List everything of value you own, including properties, investments, and personal items.  

“Just do it! An incomplete list is enough to get started.”

2. Decide on Beneficiaries: Who do you want to inherit your assets?

“Be specific and don’t use nicknames”

3. Choose an Executor: This person will manage your estate and ensure your will is carried out as written.

“We suggest you don’t choose co-executors - it only makes things more complicated.”

4. Guardians for Minors: If applicable, decide who will take care of your children.  

“You probably want to let the guardians know about your plans before three children and the pets show up on their doorstep.”

5. Draft the Will: You can use an attorney or online will-making software, but be sure that whatever you do meets your state's legal requirements.

“I personally like using a lawyer.” - Barry

“I prefer to interact with no one.” - Jason

6. Sign and Witness: Follow your state’s laws for signing and witnessing to make your will legally binding.

“Congratulations on completing your will! Celebrate your successes, big and small.  This is a big one!”

Who Can Help you complete your will? 

- Estate Planning Attorneys: Provide legal advice and can draft your will to ensure it meets all legal requirements

- Financial Advisors and Accountants: Offer insights on asset distribution and potential tax implications

- Online Legal Services: Can be a cost-effective way to create a simple will and estate plan

Knowing When your will is Complete and When to Revisit

Your Last Will and Testament is complete when it's signed, witnessed, stored in a safe place, and you have told a trusted individual where to find it. However, life changes— marriage, divorce, the birth of children, or significant changes in assets—mean it's time to revisit and possibly update your will.

Conclusion

A Last Will and Testament is more than a legal document; it's an act of care for your loved ones and a way to ensure your legacy lives on as you wish. Taking the steps to create one might seem overwhelming, but it's a crucial part of life planning that provides peace of mind for both you and your family. Don't wait until it's too late to express your final wishes clearly and legally.

“It is never to early to write your will, but it can be way too late.”


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